Arranging that First Meeting

While chatting to a variety of guys on the dating app is very entertaining I decided to take the next step and arrange to meet someone.  I don’t need to spell out the risks of such a meeting so I thought agreeing coffee or a drink in town would be a logical place to start.  Attempt 1 was to meet someone for coffee in the morning but then he started asking for more.  At one point he tried saying he would only agree to coffee if I sent him naked pictures.  Having realised that was not going to happen, by which point I was starting to have serious doubts, his next concern was if he should book a hotel room.  Needless to say that meeting did not happen.

My new best quote is: “I’m looking for someone who can deepthroat a big one”

Attempt 2 was to meet for drinks in the early evening.  After attempt 1 I tried to make it clear that I was only after a drink.  He seemed like a nice guy and I guess mostly he probably is.  As it turns out he was after more and in the end it was necessary for me to leave.    Nonetheless I was glad I made the effort to get out and meet someone.

So yeah getting out and meeting people has a lot of potential but I can see that there will also be some interesting experiences.

Given the nature of this blog I want to keep things anonymous which means that I won’t use names and I will try to limit other identifying details. 

Introduction to Heartbreak and Hope

This first post is a week since I got dumped.  As part of my attempt to deal with this I downloaded an online dating app and have kept some friends entertained with stories of the crazies I have met.  My friend did ask why I needed an app to know that there are so many crazies out there.  So far it seems all the guys are only after one thing, the difference being how long it takes them to ask and how crude the request.

Best quote so far: “When you want to fuck say hello :-))”

I already have an obsessive stalker who keeps messaging me even though I have hardly said anything to him.  I’m still not sure how he can say he really admires from one photo.  At one point he sent 28 messages without me saying a single word.  Today obsessive stalker sent me 5 messages including an offer to take me out.

So far this dating app has really surprised me with the amount of interest.   I haven’t finished setting up my profile and I don’t think the photo is very good.  As the name suggests I would like to take my heartbreak, turn it into something positive with some new experiances.
Given the nature of this blog I want to keep things anonymous which means that I won’t use names and I will try to limit other identifying details.