While chatting to a variety of guys on the dating app is very entertaining I decided to take the next step and arrange to meet someone. I don’t need to spell out the risks of such a meeting so I thought agreeing coffee or a drink in town would be a logical place to start. Attempt 1 was to meet someone for coffee in the morning but then he started asking for more. At one point he tried saying he would only agree to coffee if I sent him naked pictures. Having realised that was not going to happen, by which point I was starting to have serious doubts, his next concern was if he should book a hotel room. Needless to say that meeting did not happen.
My new best quote is: “I’m looking for someone who can deepthroat a big one”
Attempt 2 was to meet for drinks in the early evening. After attempt 1 I tried to make it clear that I was only after a drink. He seemed like a nice guy and I guess mostly he probably is. As it turns out he was after more and in the end it was necessary for me to leave. Nonetheless I was glad I made the effort to get out and meet someone.
So yeah getting out and meeting people has a lot of potential but I can see that there will also be some interesting experiences.
Given the nature of this blog I want to keep things anonymous which means that I won’t use names and I will try to limit other identifying details.
Heartbreak and Hope 