I am a single, 40 something, woman living in South Africa.  Easter 2017 a relationship went wrong and I set up an online dating accounts as a means to fill the gap.  At the time it was also an act of petty vengeance because I knew he would disapprove.  It was not long before I was entertaining my friends with stories of the people I encountered.  That gave me the idea for this blog.

So this is the story of how I took a bad experience and I’m turning it into something positive.  Hopefully along the way I will entertain you with stories of the crazy characters I meet.  As well as providing some insights into the world of online dating in South Africa.  No doubt you will also learn a little about South African culture and how this affects the dating landscape.